I was going to stop posting to this thread until I figured out a final recipe. However, today I substituted coconut milk for the water. I thought this might be a change someone else may want to try. I also increased the oil.

Today's version
1 1/8 tsp gelatin (1/2 packet)
1 T coconut milk
1/8 tsp ACV
1 1/2 tsp oil (1/2 tsp olive, 1/2 tsp avocado, 1/2 coconut oil)
1/4 mashed banana
1 T conditioner

-I leave out the honey because I put it in my DT after
-I'm starting to think the avocado oil might be drying out my hair. (or it could be winter)
-coconut milk + banana smells yummy
-Off Topic: Coconut milk is great in chai tea.
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2a (nc.com) 2bFi (Fia), very fine, thin, low/normal elasticity, porous, CG, doesn't get weighed down
Cowash: Tresemme naturals
Rinse out/leave in: Renpure Organics (red)
Curl enhancer: FSG
Gel: BRHG, Salon care aloe, Ecostyler Krystal (normal dews)
PT: ION effective care, IAgirl's gelatin PT
Low Poo: renpure (red), Ion swimmers