Is there a certain food pyramid you guys follow?

I've been following Harvard's new one:

but of course there's the FDA one too:

The thing that worries me most, and the biggest difference IMO, is dairy - Harvard actually puts it way up top, saying 1-2 servings is enough. So, I've been leaving it out a lot, but perhaps I shouldn't be. I just add milk to coffee or a couple sprinkles of cheese to my lunch and call it a day.

How many servings do you think is healthy?
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