I was 15 and I put some spray gel in my hair and blow-dried it and it was very beautiful and curly and lots of volume. When I went to school my friend started laughing and said it looks like you have after-sex hair. I was so insulted (plus I was a virgin and was never touched by a guy) that I put it up and ruined it. Another friend from 10-12 grade would always say my hair looked messy when I wore it down natural. Even though people commented on it all the time.

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3a, normal porosity, fine texture, normal elasticity
experimenting with:
co-wash: suave naturals
rinse-out: tresemme naturals moisturizing conditioner
other products: nothing yet