My hair is still very brittle and frizzier than normal. Also I noticed that the hair at the nape of my neck is less curly and more frizzy than it has been.

I'm going to continue with co-wash,RO,LI, followed by gel for now because I have a family wedding to go to next weekend and I'm scared to try something new and look awful.

But I would love some input. I know there are a lot of similar threads but the more I read, the more confused I get. I'm thinking it was the EVCO because it was that day, but I also thought it could be a delayed reaction from the color.
CG since 9/2011 - 3b/Coarse/Medium thickness

Low Poo: Shea Moisture Retention, Loreal Everpure Sulfate-Free (ocassionally)
Co-wash: Suave Naturals Coconut Conditioner
RO: GVP Conditioning Balm, AOHR
LI: GVP Conditioning Balm
DT: Shea Moisture DT Hair Masque, AOHR
Gel: Dep Endurance Styling Gel, HE Set Me Up Spray Gel
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