Are you planning to fully transition? I am growing out my relaxer and it's been 2 months since my last touch up, so my roots are beginning to get really puffy. This weekend I did my first deep conditioning treatment and the results were like night and day. I'd suggest you start deep conditioning ASAP to lock in moisture and only detangle your hair after you complete your wash and apply a leave in conditioner.

My roots had been really dry and when I did my treatment this weekend, I was amazed at how it softened them up and made combing easier.

It sounds like your at a crossroads with relaxing and I'd wait to make sure you really want to relax that way you won't lose that precious natural hair you've grown. Good luck!