Okay, so the last time I got a relaxer was in early september. At that point, I had braids for 3 months, and I wish I had started transitioning then, but I had no idea what to do with my hair. I made the decision to transition about a month ago, but I have no idea how to maintain my hair. I know about moisturizing my hair with a shea butter/olive oil mix, but how to I keep my hair moisturized and...looking nice?

I've been getting relaxers since I was 5, and I've never liked my hair. I want to go natural because when I noticed that when I curled my hair with spiral curlers (my hair cannot take heat. at all) I really liked the way it looked. But now I'm having a hard time knowing what to do with my hair other than comb it back into a pony tail.