Im having a baby boy in 4 months. I think it will be worth it to find out what works for his hair instead of cutting it. My mother was clueless with my hair and let it mat up and would just cut the mats out. How awful but I digress.

Have you thought about braids? Maybe coconut oil will soften it up so it doesn't mat up as quickly.
Current State: Just bc'd but still growing out heat damage in the front that goes to the root
High Density, Medium Porosity
Length: Grazing SL curly with tons of layers
Goal: MBL curly? 2019?
Doing what I want when I want!