Thanks guys the same stuff in my hair as his Cantu leave in conditioner and shea moisture products. I wash his hair every other week as I do with my daughter (she's a 4c) I think Eli's hair is more like a 3/4a he def has shrinkage/matting curlies. I try not to use heavy products on his hair like I use in my daughter but may I should change the products I heard Shea moisture has a baby line I might try them