I totally know what you mean about those spider hairs -- your pics of your wet hair could be mine! And I seem to get more of them when my hair dries! I have no answers unfortunately... but I'd like to see what other people have to say about it!! (and sorry I can't help with the water issue... I have city water too)
2b/c, medium-coarse texture, medium porosity, mod-CG
Mom of 2 little ones trying to find a cheap, easy routine...
Currently using:
Lo-poo: SM yucca & baobob
RO: YTCarrots
LI: SM milk
Gel: Tresemme and BRHG