i have a dilemma.

my friend is a hair stylist and i inadvertently mentioned i needed a haircut. she's been dying to throw a relaxer in my hair for years. we talked about it and she said she'd need to straighten my hair to cut it "right". i want to tell her no and double no! had my hair flat-ironed in january so i could try wigs (yes, i got funny looks in the wig shop too) and am done for the year.

there's another stylist in her salon that does curly cuts and has great reviews on here. i'm afraid of hurting her feelings if i make an appointment with that other stylist.

any advice? thanks!