Just out of curiosity ... I feel like we've got a lot of married women and mothers around here and I'm curious whether anyone else dates women or maybe has a different gender ID/expression and if so whether you feel like that affects how you think about your hair?

(Personally, obsessing over my hair makes me feel absurdly feminine in a way that I don't usually, but if it's going to get me attention from girls ... )
Originally Posted by amandamarie
me <--- awesome gay pride rainbow smiley!

i dont it affects how i think about my hair although everyone assumes im not gay because i dont have short hair or boyish hair. Its super annoying! I think its because my hair is very femine looking and people just assume femine equals straight. One this i can say there is a HELL of alot of hair in my relationship. My gf has hip length hair and i have waist length...try deal with that in your bathroom plug!!!

Interestingly tho all in all tho most girls i have dated take great pride in there hair. More so than any of my straight girl friends...
Mixture of 2c/3a curls, fine to med texture


Wishing my hair would be more like this ------>
and less like this --------->