I'm a lesbian, and mmmm... I don't think it has changed how I view my hair lol. My girlfriend wears her hair in a faux hawk, though. I've always been pretty hair conscious, but now more so now that I'm natural. I have to limit how much I talk or complain about my hairr, because she doesn't like talking much about hair unless I'm saying something positive. :X But, on the other hand I understand why since she has straight blond hair and it's like the lowest maintenance ever.