IME, athe OP is 100% true. My very first sex partner liked to "jackhammer," and when I told him I preferred it if the sex was a little less rough he said, "How do you know what you like if you've never had sex before?" ...What an a$$.

Second partner, identical situation. I think I'm pretty fun and slightly adventurous when it comes to sex, but he was just too out there for me. He was also a bully and tried to pressure me into things a lot. One time he actually tried to force me to do something I really did not want to do. But the very LAST time, he answered his phone in the middle of everything. I was so mad and embarrassed, I went and cried in the bathroom and left shortly after that. I called him every name under the sun, when I really wanted to put my foot in his stuff.

There's no hope for our generation.

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Last edited by midgi; 04-27-2012 at 08:55 PM.