Before I was CG, a co-worker/"friend" told me several times "You really should get a Brazillian (blow out)" when I was going through my hair anxiety. This is after I had repeatedly said I hate my hair straight and would never do a Brazillian.

Same person also told me later that the repeated blowouts have destroyed her curls. WTH?!?

I stopped talking to her about my hair. Duh.
CG since 4/15/12
2c-3b, fine to medium, high porosity, low elasticity
20% gray (stopped coloring 6/12)

LOVES: protein, Shea Moisture condish. & masque, KCCC, Re:Coil (HG), Kiss My Face Upper Mgmt. gel, my own FSG!

does not love: non-cg ingredients, oils, PVA/PVP, synthetic fragrances or poly-quats