(((sarah42))) I'm so sorry for your loss.

That sounds like the sort of dumb thing my husband would say, too. He probably would mean, "Did a particular memory make you feel sad at this particular instant?" but it would come as your husband said it. However, I'd be peeved too, because what kind of dumb thing is THAT to say?

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