My hair doesn't care for straight butter or oil. I find that I can use just about any butter or oil (except castor oil) in products without a problem. It may take a while for it to absorb. In that case, my hair gets better as the day goes on.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity

HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix