I'm sorry kayb! Even when you feel breaking up is the right thing to do, it often doesn't make it any easier. Hope you feel better about things soon.

And I'm sorry, Kat. I know exactly what you mean. I'm happiest in 70-75 degree weather, with a breeze, and often get asked why I don't "get some sun" (mostly by men family or friend). Because I get some sun poisoning too. I'd rather not break out in a rash, run a fever, and up my risk for skin cancer, all to not offend your senses.

Unless someone burns easy, they can't understand.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??