I think she gets to be a natural once she stops relaxing – not when all the hair on her head has never been relaxed. Eventually her hair will reflect her new mentality/hair regimen. After all, people call themselves CG as soon as they start, not only after they've done it for x-amount of time! This isn't an exclusive club. Let her be proud that she's taking a step away from the chemicals and what-not.

I hope I don't seem insensitive. I'm not sure I understand why she irks you?
|| 3b; normal porosity; fine/normal texture || CG since Feb 2010 || SD/dandruff prone

Current Routine BAQ henna 1/month Leave-in OH Hair Dew Cheapie Conditioner Tresemme Naturals Moisturizing
Old Stand-bys extra-virgin coconut oil Protein AO GPB; Moisture AO HR Style AOMMJ Kept for troubleshooting.
Waiting to try extra-wide curlformers SD treatment H&S Clinical Strength