have you tired spending an evening and just playing round with your hair doing different things with it? i do this somtimes when i got nothing better to do and i dont have anything the next day on. or go on youtube and look for different styles, all you need are ideas

my hair: 3b, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
Oils and my own procuts are my hairs best friend
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.