How's it going? Have you found anything that's worked? I was having issues with my hair tangling after shampooing. I found that diluting it with water in a applicator bottle really helps. My hair stays moisturized and tangle free. I saw someone mentioned washing in twists. I detangle my hair with conditioner and twist it into a few sections. Then I shampoo. I use less water with both of these steps. One youtuber that I really like is 1ballerina. It looks like you guys might have the same length hair. She has some nice videos of styles she does with accessories. She also religiously sets her hair in twists, often braiding the twists for even more lasting definition.