Welcome, naturalredheadd! This is a great place to find the info, help and support you are looking for! These links will help get you started:
Live Curly Live Free - Curly Hair Basics
Curly Hair Tips, Styles & Products - NaturallyCurly
Many curlies here have great results with VO5 Naturals, Suave Naturals and Tresemme Naturals (my favorite). I also like Shea Moisture shampoos. There is also good info in the product review section. Once you know your hair properties, you will be able to narrow down the products that will bring out the best in your curls. After that, it's trial and error.
3B, fine, normal to low porosity
Modified CG since June 2010
HGs: FSG, anything with glycerin, Tresemme Naturals conditioner, Curls Like Us cloths, satin pillowcases.