I am a stay at home mom of a 14mo so most days I don't go out. Everything I read says gel of some sort daily to prevent frizzing and what not....since most days it doesn't matter that much about how my hair looks--I am really starting to like the wavies and curls but I hate having gel in it every day. Can the gel be skipped and still encourage curls--just put leave in on or does the gel help keep the moisture in? Do other SAHM have a daily at home routine then a routine for when you are planning on people seeing you--if so what is your at home routine?