I do what Botticellicurlygirl does except i don't use a leave in and i begin to blow dry with the round, natural bristle brush when it's slightly wetter than damp. Phytodefrissant is great. i also don't usually put anything else on my hair to finish.
When my hair begins to feel dry, it's also kind of big and puffy. I find that i have to keep going through it with the brush and dryer a few more times and then it gets smooth and shiny.