Thanks so much for your input KAM!

I will do that. I'm finding that the simple no protein products are helping - I just got the Jane Carter shine and love it. (Though I have no idea the ingredients). I ordered some Komaza care oil - evco and argan and also their cocunut pudding. My hair likes KCCC and rich LIs. It's so much softer and less tangly!
3b/fine/normal porosity/normal elasticity

LOVES behentrimonium methosulfate
(don't ask me to pronounce that!)

Want to grow it long again!
And simply want to figure out this hair of mine!