Well me personally, I LOVE THE TEXTURE SOFTENER FOR MY CHILD. I love it so much that I put the remainder of it in my hair last night. Now I love it even more because I can use it and actually get results instead of using a relaxer. My daughter will be seven in 5 months an trust me when I tell you....NEITHER OF US LIKE DOING HER HAIR. Her hair gets wet and completely shrinks up to her head. She cries and I become so frustrated that this was the best result for the both of us. So call me what you like but I would tell any other mom that has the same issues I have with their daughters hair as I had with mine, BY ALL MEANS, GET YOU A JUST FOR ME TEXTURE SOFTENER. IT WORKS WONDERS.