so 2 years back my hair was about a very fine and frizzy 3C, i got the bkt in hopes of making it stick out less and so the curls would get softer. it left me with super straight hair, straighter than i wanted and now after 2 more treatments (less strong this time) over the past years, and ironing it at least twice a week, my hair is very coarse,dry, frizzy to the point where it doenst even fit together anymore, and a mix between all the A's but it sticks out a lot ive stopped doing the treatments and stopped ironing my hair this past year but it still looks ridiculous. any ideas how to make it better?