I finally figured out why my hair is damaged besides my straightening it I kind of forgot I bleached my hair.When I had used permanent hair dyes my hair wasn't as damaged as it is when I use bleach. Bleached my hair but only to a medium brown so I didn't think it'd be too damaged.

I tried using a protein conditioner(mane n tail) since I heard colored hair needs it more.At first I thought it was helping but after 2 weeks my hair was getting straighter and dry.It looks like my hair was blowdried!

And recently I found some leftover conditioner that came in the box(I used the loreal highlighting kit) and it made my hair feel soft.I just don't want to use a lot and run out.
The garnier for damaged hair is thick/creamy like the other conditioner but it doesn't make my hair feel soft.