Here's a link to help you determine your hair properties Live Curly Live Free - Curly Hair Basics. It's the best way to determine what ingredients/products to use. Once you determine your properties, you can look with people with hair like yours and see what they use (in signatures.)
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity

HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix