My dd will be one soon and has very very kinky hair yet is also very scalp is also very tender. I tried putting putting braids and twists and both resulted in red stress bumps on her scalp no matter how loose they are made. I also tried putting her hair in multiple small afro puffs and still the stress bumps came ( I only tied the holder 2x just enough for it to hold the hair). When I leave it in an afro it gets very dry and mats. I oil it with coconut oil and olive oil everyday yet it still is very dry. Is there anything else I can do to keep it healthy and looking neat. Her first birthday is coming up and I would like to have party and it would be fabulous is her hair looked neat.

Please please someone help me.