i think you look great, and 38 is young!
i think dressing/wearing your hair/makeup in a style from another decade does not make a person look old if it is a good look. and, i believe any age can wear any style as long as it is flattering. i mean, in any decade, there are always older women, so they should not dress current?
what makes a person look old is dressing in a style that does not work for them. today's styles are great in that there is no one thing that is right, wrong. skirts can be any length, pants any width..... not like it was when i was growing up.
there are some styles (clothing, hair, makeup) that were unattractive even in that decade and it think those are the ones that make a person look dated).
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