try low pooing, it won't dry out your hair. you can even low poo a couple of days in a row, should be fine. then leave a good leave in in, i like curl junkie conditioners. you mentioed cj bcli, that should be good.

if you are not washing/cowashing every day, then it might take a bit to get it back in balance.
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3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity
washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: [I] curl junkie products
leave in:cj conditioners and treatments as leave in
styling: cj aloe fix gel, cj pattern pusha, cj honey butta leave in, cj cccc, cj ciab.
sealants - jane carter nourish & shine