Oh yeah, I went out on a first date this past Saturday. He told me he got divorced 8 years ago bc his wife cheated on him w/ one of her coworkers. And wghile we were eating dinner, who should walk into the restaurant but the guy she cheated with.

So we get into a long (and whiny) conversation about that. And then he directs me to a video of him on Youtube in which he is reciting a poem he wrote to help him deal with affrair. But in the poem, he takes on the persona of the guy she cheated with (presumably bc he believes he knows the thoughts and motivation of the guy and the details oft heir affair). And he told a friend at work about the video and soon the whole huge company knew about and it caused so much controversy and ill will, he got demoted.

And he actually shot the video in the parking lot of the church I attend.

so freakin weird!
Originally Posted by spiderlashes5000
Oh myy god! I'm sorry but I'm at work barely able to contain my laughter, that is hilarious. And sorry again! Was he at least cute? Why would he show you that?
Originally Posted by Josephine
No, he was not. Not even a little.

But already invited me (and my kids, if I had them) over for Sunday dinner yesterday. (I declined.) To a poetry slam this Wednesday and to a friend's bday party this Friday. (Will be a no and a no.) And that was after a steak and lobster first date.

But the fine-as-hell ones, want to kill themselves, don't speak to their mama, tell me I need to be popped in the mouth, need to borrow money, have more than one personality, etc.


He thinks he is impressing me w/ his poetry-writing skills.

(I'm a writer but not really into poetry. And he's not that good.)

And I guess he thinks he "understands" the affair is now equipped to be a great boyfriend and is somehow more self-evolved.

(He just seems bitter.)

Last edited by spiderlashes5000; 11-19-2012 at 12:19 PM.