oh my god, I suddenly feel how my life was when I was that age. Things like that are getting beter when you get older and can make your own desicions!

Maybe you can try if it's okay when you wear your hair up, in a messy bun? You can make something very nice if you just stick some bobby pins in your hair and leave some of the curls in front of your face out of it?

You can also tell your dad that you think it's like he doesn't think you are beautiful, or even accepted just how you naturally are. I think it's quite insulting to say that you have to change something about the way you look!
highlighted 3a hair. Fine strands, medium to high density. Probably high porosity. Growing uit bad layering and aiming for waist lenght!

Pre-poo: coconut oil
wash: CJ Daily fix or SheaMoisture Coconut&Hibiscus
RO + LI: different every time
Styler: CJ Pattern Pusha, CJ CIAB

dislikes: glycerin in low dews, scissor happy stylists, magnesium sulfate

(modified) CG since june 25, 2012
Hiarfinity + extra MSM since March 5., 2014

SL - APL - BSBL- BSL - MBL - WL (stretched)