Thank you to all those who replied and who took the time out of their day to give advice and to share personal stories. Everyone has been so helpful.

I think I learned a lot from the experience and from this thread, especially the part about emotional blackmailing. I never knew what it was called but I realize it happens a lot. I think that this whole thing has really opened my eyes and allowed me to become a better person though. So thank you all
2c/3a, fine texture, normal porosity, medium-to-thick
Co wash: Vo5 Extra Body
Conditioners: Deva One Condition, GVP CB, Loreal Evercurl
Stylers: Devacurl ArcAngel, KCCC, AG Recoil, Iso Bouncy Creme, Ecostyler Krystal, CCCCL, KCKT
Low Poo: Devacurl NoPoo, GTTT
Hair likes: plopping, diffusing, SMaster's, coconut and argan oil, honey, protein
"What makes a woman unforgettable? Her mind...surrounded by lots of naturally curly hair"