you should try out the straight grape seed. i just showeredd and im trying it on face and skin as im typing, (oily keybored now!) well it certainly is lighter, i mixed it with my condish again and sealed with argan oil this time, have to see how it turns out when its dry, and how it is now that its winter. though i did notice today that my hair was really soft. its lighter then argan! i wouldnt have thought it, and just used it for my face. see how that is. i want to try it for a after shaving leg calmer haha ive got sensitive skin and get rashes after shaving or when i use water that im not used to.
sorry for the long novel

my hair: 3b, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
Oils and my own procuts are my hairs best friend
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.