I use all 'cones, I actually love how dimethicone makes my hair feel. However, I try not to use products that are almost entirely made of cones, or have them really high on the ingredients list. Also, I don't use 'cones in my shampoo, ever! I only use them SPARINGLY in my conditioners, then however I want to in my stylers.

The products I use most are the Joico Deep Treatment, Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Balm, Kenra Styling Cream, TIGI Curlesque Curl Anplifier, and some Frederic Fekkai balm in a green tube -- that one is coney-er than I like, so I use it sparingly, but WOW does it make my hair soft!!

I wash my hair with the Renpure shampoo in the red bottle. It's a low-poo with coca. betaine and it seems to remove all buildup! It's very gentle and I haven't had any issues with my hair getting dry. It's actually very soft.
whurly girly (2C/3A).
thick; medium/coarse; low porosity.
hair that is drier than the sahara desert.

LOW-POO: Renpure Organics
CO: L'Oreal EverCreme Cleansing Conditioner
RO: Renpure Keratin Conditioner. New HG!
LI: L'Oreal EverSleek Humidity-Defying LI Creme
Styling: SM Curl Milk, Argan Oil for sealing, sometimes GFPC Gel, some honey for hold, TIGI Control Freak Serum!!