it sounds to me as tho you have very striking, attractive looks, not the run of the mill kind, so maybe that is why people ask??? it is rude, but people don't think and they may think you understand that they are struck by your unique looks in a positive way.
it's like any kid, sometimes we look more like one parent than the other. and not like our siblings. it just is.
you should stop worrying what people say/think -- actually, just a silent stare is often quite effective to intrusive comments... hahaha! seriously.
it sounds like you have a lot to feel good about concerning your looks, your hair curl, your skin/hair/eye color.... start enjoying being unique!
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3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity
washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: [I] curl junkie products
leave in:cj conditioners and treatments as leave in
styling: cj aloe fix gel, cj pattern pusha, cj honey butta leave in, cj cccc, cj ciab.
sealants - jane carter nourish & shine