I apologize if I have hurt someone's feelings. I don't CARE about who is right and who is wrong - I care about clearing up whatever was happening, usually a misunderstanding of some sort, and that the other person was made to feel hurt in some way. And so I apologize for my role in their feelings being hurt, whether they were initially correct or not.
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.

But at least the pews never attend yoga!