Well, I was pretty straightforward with my no. I figured I should elaborate.

I hadn't thought of people born here of illegal aliens (is there a better phrase?) perhaps because it's less common in the age range of men that I would be dating. I'm not sure what I would do in that situation as far as marriage.
Originally Posted by redcelticcurls

Undocumented immigrants.

Calling people "illegals" is actually pretty offensive as you thought when typing that but without a different term to use. "No, you're not legal" sounds a bit like "you should have never been born." Their immigration status may not be legally validated, but their existence itself isn't illegal.
Originally Posted by NetG
Thanks! That sounds better.
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