I don't think it should be a first date matter for discussion either. It's way too soon. If the relationship is serious, I agree it should be brought up sometime before marriage. There are various reasons why somebody can have poor credit. Many people think that everyone with poor credit is irresponsible and clueless, but that's not the case with everyone. Some are victims of identity theft. And others are responsible, like me, but are/were weak when it came to demands from family members who are clueless about handling money because said family member felt entitled or believed that their offspring "owed" them something after 18 odd years of raising them.
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