Is it wrong for a woman to lean over a counter if te person behind the counter isn't understanding what you want.

I dont mean from the employee who is working's POV. I mean from an appropriateness of a woman to lean on a counter.

I say no. I was told I wasn't a lady today because I did it. I'm willing to noting my loved one asks, but I can't help but point out the pressure we put on women unnecessarily to be a certain way.

If leaning on the counter to point is the only way I can get my point across after a few minutes, the goddammit, I'm going to.

Mix of 3s, thick, coarse, medium porosity

Current hair styling technique: rake with a scrunch at the end. (works with my coarse hair)
pw: curls

Known HGs: KCCC, homemade fsg, honey