the week before christmas my friends from work adn i went to a nearby shop. one of htem wanted to buy something for her husband. another one has never been in one. she had no clue what anything was. we had to explain everyhting to her. the friend who had to buy something suggested to her to buy something for her husband. her eyes got big and she said, "he cant even know i'm in here, it will divorce me!" i then suggested she buy herself something then gave her one of those butterfly vibrators, it was purple and pink and really pretty. she thought it was for decoration, "its so pretty, i can put it on my desk at work." we just laughed and she had no idea why. i am also one of those who goes around the store playing with stuff. i dont know how anyone can not. its so much fun.