well, maybe I need to get some mineral oil. If it works for you, it should work for me, right? lol!

I wish I could get clumps, too. It just wont happen. You should post a hair pic, so I can see if our curls are actually similar or if it's just our properties. They sound SO similar!
Rae ~ 2c/3a ~
Wife to a 3c Curly Guy
Mom to a straight and a curly.

"The Longer the Hair, the Bigger the Blob."

Porous, very dense but fine hair. Medium everything else.
CoWash: Tressemee naturals
RO: Generic biolage and generic joico k-pak
LI: Tresemee
Miss Jessie's Pillow soft curls, diffuse 50%, add KCCC and diffuse to 80%.
Always wash upside down.