I hear you!! I fear haircuts and avoid them as much as possible. It's a nightmare finding someone who knows what they are doing. I've even been to deva stylists and had bad experiences. It's a problem with education... most stylists never learn to work with natural curls. It's not a part of their curriculum. Such a huge oversight!! I'm thinking of teaching myself to self trim. Can't be any worse than what bad stylists have done to me!
My hair: 3b, corkicelli, medium porosity, medium texture, medium/thick density

Co-wash: DevaCurl NoPoo
Rinse-out: GVP Conditioning Balm
Leave-in: KCKT, Suave Naturals Coconut, or my rinse-out!
Gel: SS FHG (my new HG!!)... I also like HESMU, AIF, CJ CQ, BRHG, CJ PP and the occasional LALSG

Likes: Plopping!
Dislikes: Glycerin

CG and loving it!