Hang in there is all that I can say. It took me about 6 months to find which products and techniques worked for me. I would suggest Live Curly Live Free - Home for a hair anaylsis. I did it about 1 year in and basically would have saved myself a lot of time trying different products because their recommendations were what I had figured out myself.

3b, Medium-Coarse (slight coarse charactericstics), Normal porosity & Low elasticity per Curl Wizard Profile.
Low-poo: Nourish Shampoo
Co-wash: Suave, Vo5, HE, Aussie Moist
Deep Conditioner: GVP Conditioning Balm
Leave-in: Nourish Conditioner (Trader Joe's)
Stylers: LA Looks Sports, Coconut Oil, Almond Oil, Jojoba Oil.
Methods: Wet plop or pineapple at night, diffuse in the morning. Scrunch w/joboba, coconut or almond oil.