My son has started complaining about all the products I use in his hair to maintain his 4a curls. I love the wet look and defined curls he has after a bath but when he wakes in the morning he has bed-head and his curls are dry and mashed into his head with a frizz halo!

I'm looking for ideas/products that will put moisture and shine back into his curls. What are good shampoos, conditioners, leave ins, styling products? Also any morning routines for curly hair that doesn't require spritzing and gels/lotions in the morning?

What do others do with a son that doesn't like a lot of primping ?