Have you tried putting it in a loose braid before going to bed? You can always restyle messy spots and then tie back into the loose braid.
3b/c, medium-coarse, low porosity, high density
HG: Jessicurl Too Shea and Kinky Curly Curling Custard
Shampoo: nonsulfate shampoo and Suave Naturals sulfate shampoo when needed