It seems to me that the same reasons some people don't like silicones in their hair products--it builds up, needs strong shampoo to wash out, keeps moisture from penetrating--would apply to oils such as jojoba as well.

I have medium-fine hair and every time I try oils, it's a disaster, and I have to use a clarifying wash. What am I missing?
*3B, medium/fine, normal porosity, normal elasticity, shoulder-length when dry.