She needs to get a job, even if it's part-time or volunteering. I think she would feel a lot better. It doesn't sound like being a SAHM is good for her or the children.
Originally Posted by Po
Totally agree! Being a SAHP takes a special kind of person. Someone who never wanted to have children is not that person.

Sounds like there may be some resentment towards her kids. Since it was never her dream to have them, she might feel they are preventing her from pursuing the goals she did have.
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