Maybe you could try going product-less for a couple of days, or just use a leave-in conditioner and tie it up in a bun. Could be that your hair is getting parched from having those products on it all the time. Have you tried clarifying weekly? Sounds like you need a vinegar rinse or baby shampoo (good clarifier) to get rid of that excess product build-up - you could be feeling that, and not your hair.